Cheri Hardman on Embracing Body Image, Finding Your Voice, and Late Blooming Comedy

Launching a podcast is always a little awkward, and there’s no better first guest for the Own Your Awkward Podcast than Seattle comedian Cheri Hardman. In this episode, we dive into comedy, confidence, body image, aging, and finding your voice, exploring how Cheri has used vulnerability and humor to embrace her awkward moments and empower others to do the same.

Meet Cheri Hardman: The Oldest New Face in Comedy

Cheri describes herself as “the oldest new face in comedy,” starting her stand-up career at 54. Based in Seattle, she’s known for her bold, adult humor that tackles sex, marriage, body image, and aging with sharp wit and unapologetic authenticity. Cheri also hosts the web series Heavy Petting with Cheri Hardman, blending animal videos with playful, flirtatious conversation—a perfect showcase of her unique comedic style.

Comedy, Awkwardness, and Life Experience

Cheri emphasizes that comedy comes from lived experience. Starting later in life has given her perspective and material that many younger comedians are still discovering. She has navigated decades of life, from her younger, insecure self to her current confidence as a performer and wife. Cheri’s experiences prove that even awkward or challenging moments can be transformed into powerful comedy and personal growth.

Confidence, Body Image, and Empowerment

A key theme of our conversation was body image and confidence. Cheri shared how growing up as a chubby girl shaped her self-perception, and how it took joining NAFA (National Association to Advance Fat Acceptance) dances as an adult to feel fully accepted for the first time.

It was totally different, all of a sudden I was like the hottest babe in the room instead of ‘she’s got a good personality.

Cheri uses her comedy to challenge societal standards, especially for women of size. By embracing her body and discussing it openly, she empowers her audience to accept themselves, too.

Finding Your Voice in Comedy and Life

Cheri discussed how she found her comedic voice. While she tells jokes about her body, sex, marriage, and everyday life, her larger message is about empowerment and self-acceptance. Comedy is her platform to disarm shame and model confidence, showing that owning your story is more important than fitting into expectations.

Vulnerability and Marriage

Cheri’s marriage at 49 added another dimension to her comedy. Her husband’s supportive presence allows her to explore personal topics on stage while maintaining respect and balance. This dynamic highlights the value of supportive relationships when expressing vulnerability in public.

Writing, Discipline, and Creativity

Cheri shared insights into her creative process, keeping a tablet in her purse for ideas and carving out quiet time to write. She emphasized the challenge of staying disciplined amidst distractions, a struggle familiar to many creatives, but one she navigates with humor and persistence.

Three Takeaways from Cheri Hardman

1. Confidence is built through acceptance, not perfection. Surround yourself with supportive communities that celebrate you.

2. Your voice matters more than fitting in. Speak your truth with clarity and purpose.

3. It’s never too late to start. Age should never limit your ambition or ability to pursue what you love.

Why Cheri’s Story Matters

Cheri Hardman embodies the Own Your Awkward philosophy by turning personal challenges into laughter, connection, and empowerment. Her story encourages anyone who feels “too much” or “not enough” to embrace themselves fully, proving that vulnerability and humor can transform lives.